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Probably the single greatest asset which anyone can ever have in conversations is the ability to make other people laugh.


Whether you are asking your boss for a raise nike air max 98 scontate , talking to someone who you like, or just trying to be the popular person who everyone wants to be around, you will get light years ahead if only you can make them laugh.


An interesting, but little known fact is that laughter is a response which is a subconscious way of saying to someone else ?I want to bond with you?. Is it any wonder that countless surveys have shown that the number one desired characteristic in the opposite sex, for both sexes nike air vapormax uomo scontate , is a sense of humour.


But can someone actually learn to be funny? Do you have to be born with a particular natural talent for humour, which if you don't have, there's no chance for you? Are some people permanently condemned to a lifetime of boredom and unpopularity, never able to hold their own in a conversation, while the ?natural funny guys? effortlessly take the approval of everyone present? Is there a secret to being funny?


Many naturally funny people nike air vapormax scontate , even most stand-up comedians, will tell you that humour ?just comes? and that is the only way it can be ever be produced. If you don't possess a natural sense of humour, you will never be funny.


But is this true?


Imagine for a moment, being able to make anyone laugh at will. No matter what the situation, just being able to turn anything into a well-crafted nike air max tn scontate , make-everyone-laugh joke. Always be able to insert that killer funny line into any conversation. What could you achieve with this ability which outshines even the ?naturals?? How easy would conversations be from now on? How much would your confidence improve knowing you will always carry around with you the effortless secret of powerful humour?


But is this possible? Can humour actually ?be learnt??


I want you for a moment to think back to your school days when you had to learn that subject which everyone loved called - mathematics. Now, some people found mathematics quite easy and picked it up quite fast, while others didn't take to it as good and plodded along kinda slowly. There are ?naturals? at mathematics too. But in the end, everyone actually learnt to do mathematics. Everyone actually learnt to be able to do addition and subtraction quite easily. The heavier stuff maybe not everyone got, but it soon became obvious that even those who at first had trouble nike air max 95 scontate , with a bit of study and a bit of work, it was possible for anyone to be able to develop the ability to 'do mathematics?.


So what exactly is going on here? Well, mathematics is primarily a left-brain activity. Now some people are naturally 'left-brained? people and so have an advantage at left-brained things like mathematics. However, even those who aren't 'left-brained? people can still exercise that part of their brain and develop it to any level they choose. It just takes a little bit more work. The same is true for humour. Humour is primarily a right-brain activity. Some people may not be naturally ?right-brained? people, but they can still develop this part of their brain. So who then can learn humour?


Anyone who has ever laughed at a joke can learn to be funny!


That's just about everyone right? Okay nike air max 96 scontate , sounds great, but how do I learn to be funny? Well, how did you learn to do mathematics? First you were given a formula, then you practiced using it over and over again. It was hard at first - you really had to think. But after doing heaps of problems, it was easy. You could do it in your sleep. It is the same with humour.


So what is the formula to being funny?


Make yourself comfortable here because I am about to share with you the secret to all humour.


The human brain operates by continuously looking for patterns. It does this so that it can constantly predict the outcome of a situation. When a story is began nike air max 97 scontate , the brain immediately finds a familiar pattern to associate it to, so that it can predict where it is going. But when this pattern is disrupted and a connection is suddenly made to an entirely new and unexpected pattern, laughter occurs as this new connection is made.


Okay, that's a bit heavy. How does it actually work?


Well lets take an example.


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